I have no idea if come the time of the marriage of my children if I will still be an event planner but I can tell you, event planner or not I am hiring a wedding planner for our girls.
I recently put on a Sweet 16 New Year’s Eve party for our oldest daughter and it was mid-day on New Year’s Eve that I decided that I would be hiring a wedding planner when my girls got married. Maybe not one to help them plan the entire event but certainly someone to put the finishing touches on it and to see it through on the day of. Our party was for 40 or so people, in a tiny hall where there really was no stress. I had my own staff to manage and a family member who was doing the food. Everyone was pretty self-sufficient. Well let me tell you, by about 4:30 that day I was really kind of hoping the party would cancel last minute so I could go to bed. But no, instead I still had to run home, get changed, touch up my hair and make-up and be back at the hall within the hour to start greeting guests. I was exhausted after a week of final plans and on the day of running my daughter around to hair appointments and picking up last minute items that had been forgotten or missed, I certainly was not refreshed and ready for a long night of dancing and celebrating with my daughter, which really should have been the only thing on my mind. Oh and did I mention that my husband and I were back at the hall the next day at 7:00am to clean everything up. Two weeks later and I still have stuff in the trailer that I haven’t unloaded yet.
And this was just a sweet 16 party, although important, nothing compared to the marriage of our girls. I vow to be rested and totally focussed on celebrating my daughters’ new lives when it’s time. So as a gift to myself I will be hiring a wedding planner.